Why Let My Spouse Win? If I get in a fight with my wife, should I just lie and say, “You’re right” when I don’t believe she is? No. That is not what I am encouraging people to do. That is not what I mean by letting your spouse win. What I mean is if your husband or wife is committed to honoring the wedding vows faithfully, then be fair. Let your spouse succeed.

Freedom is vital to having a great life, a great marriage, a happy family. A big part of that freedom may involve understanding and protecting yourself and your family members from unfair and abusive control. For that reason I would like to start introducing some YouTube videos I found from various people on narcissism and how to get free from the gut wrenching pain of being in a codependent slavery to a narcissist.

I just read an article in Psychology Today called 5 Truths About Marriage This article helps replace the magic thinking nonsense about marriage that draws people to commit with a more honest, healthy, practical focus on what marriage is and why it is precious even if nobody is ever perfect in marriage. This article is short but it sets expectations honestly. It helps us see that marriage is not a hope for luck but a promise to be kept.