Absolutely nothing at all.

• Q: What are my university degrees?
  A: Mathematics with a minor in physics and studies in computer science.
• Q: Am I a psychologist or counselor?
  A: No, not at all.
• Q: What career did I have most of my life?
  A: Computer geek. Systems, Databases, Software Engineering, Support, Management.
• Q: What qualifications DO you have?
  A: I care. I experienced a bad and good marriage. I’m a dad of both a boy and a girl. I read lots of books and studied lots of audio and videotapes on marriage. I experienced depression and anxiety and the hard psychological effects such stress can be on a person’s memory and ability to function or avoid foolish decisions. I lived through a lot. But so did perhaps half of the population.

I owe a great debt of gratitude to many people for their advice and help.

Eileen, My Wife

Eileen was and is central to my emotional healing. She comforted and supported me with great love, patience, and wisdom. She also has a blog of her own at DOTA - Daughters of the Almighty.

Mark 10:9, What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.

NoDivorces began as my angry rant against divorce.

I studied marriage and the prevention of divorce diligently long before meeting my ex-wife. I wanted to marry once for life. I wanted to be a great father and a great husband and to have a great family life as my parents and grandparents provided for us.