Why NoDivorces.com Exists

Opposing Unilateral No-Fault Divorce and Defending the Faithful and Their Children

Unilateral no-fault divorce laws were introduced under the promise of fairness and simplicity.

In practice, they have produced something very different.

They have enabled:

the punishment of faithfulness
the transfer of property from the committed to the abandoning
the destabilization of children’s lives
and the legal normalization of betrayal

NoDivorces.com exists to name this injustice clearly, to oppose it lawfully, and to defend those harmed by it—especially faithful spouses and children who did not consent to the destruction of their family.

This is not a counseling site.
It is not neutral.
And it is not silent.

What Is Being Opposed

Under unilateral no-fault divorce:

one spouse may dissolve a lifelong covenant without cause
courts are instructed not to consider faithfulness or betrayal
the faithful spouse is often treated as interchangeable with the abandoning one
children lose stability while the law pretends no one is responsible

This is not moral neutrality.

It is a legal structure that removes accountability while redistributing harm.

NoDivorces.com exists to challenge that structure openly.

Who This Site Is For

This site is for:

Faithful spouses who want protection, not platitudes
Engaged or married couples who reject unilateral exit as a moral norm
Parents concerned about how no-fault divorce harms children
Attorneys, judges, and policymakers willing to confront uncomfortable truths
Citizens who believe the law should not reward treachery

It is also for those who want to take lawful steps now, rather than discover too late that the system offered them none.

What NoDivorces.com Advocates

NoDivorces.com advocates for lawful resistance and reform, including:

1. Prenuptial and Postnuptial Agreements

Agreements that:

affirm lifelong intent
reject unilateral abandonment
protect property and children from unjust redistribution

Not as romance—but as legal clarity.

2. Mutual Declarations of Commitment

Written statements by both spouses:

affirming fidelity
rejecting no-fault exit
declaring intent before witnesses and courts

These documents matter when systems later pretend intent never existed.

3. Exposure of Systemic Harm

Carefully documented accounts showing:

how no-fault divorce punishes the faithful
how children are treated as collateral
how courts are constrained from acknowledging wrongdoing

Sunlight is necessary before reform is possible.

4. Eventual Legal Reform

The long-term goal is not merely mitigation, but change:

restoring accountability
distinguishing faithfulness from abandonment
removing incentives for betrayal
protecting children’s right to stability

What This Site Is Not

NoDivorces.com is not:

marriage counseling
a substitute for emergency intervention
a denial of abuse, abandonment, or adultery
an argument that every marriage must remain intact at all costs

There are situations where separation is necessary for safety or justice.

Opposing unilateral no-fault divorce is not the same as denying reality.
It is about refusing to institutionalize injustice.

Why This Matters Beyond Individual Families

When the law treats commitment as meaningless:

marriage becomes provisional
children become negotiable
property becomes vulnerable
trust in institutions erodes

A society that cannot protect faithfulness will not long protect anything else.

This is not a private issue.
It is a civic one.

How This Work Connects Elsewhere

Writing that examines similar patterns of injustice—across employment, institutions, and law—can be found at:

→ https://danieljdick.com
(Career, Conscience, and Calling)

That work documents how harm is often inflicted quietly, under the appearance of neutrality.

NoDivorces.com focuses that same moral clarity on family law and marriage.

A Clear Invitation

If you believe:

vows should mean something
children deserve stability
faithfulness should not be punished
and the law should not reward betrayal

then this site exists for you.

Read.
Prepare.
Document.
And refuse to accept that injustice is inevitable.