Hebrews 12:14-17 Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord: looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled; lest there be any fornicator or profane person like Esau, who for one morsel of food sold his birthright. For you know that afterward, when he wanted to inherit the blessing, he was rejected, for he found no place for repentance, though he sought it diligently with tears.

Hopeless? Desperate? 1 Corinthians 13:13, And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love. Sometimes we don’t have a choice. We trace our steps. What did we do wrong? What could we have done better? Is it too late to fix this marriage crisis? We can blame others. We have a right to blame others, but we don’t want to. If it is someone else’s fault, then it is up to them to fix it.