Recommending a Competitor

Proverbs 15:2 The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly, But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness.

Well, she isn’t a competitor. At all. She is immensely more qualified than I am. She is a university trained expert with decades of experience and success, and I am a man who has a passion to help others avoid suffering the pain of divorce I suffered twenty years ago.

Her real competitor and mine is marital destruction. Adultery. Abuse. Divorce. Things that tear families apart. And I have no problem recommending her very, very heartily.

My Tragic Experience

During my own marital crisis close to twenty years ago, I bought Michele Weiner-Davis' books, Divorce Busting and Divorce Remedy and her video and audio tapes for those who wanted to present them to people. And to qualify to present them, you had to watch or listen to the tapes first.

And I did. Michele Weiner-Davis' materials were among those I studied and appreciated most.

Michele’s Quest

Michele went through formal schooling to become a marriage and family counselor in hopes of saving marriages. She became convinced that certain marriages could not or should not be saved and felt disappointed that she and her colleagues were experiencing little success saving marriages. In fact, many couples who came in for counseling would leave fighting more bitterly than when they came in.

So she went on a quest to find out what was different about marriages that were brought back from the brink of disaster. And she got really good at saving marriages. She hired more coaches and wrote books to share what she learned. And her counseling took a different focus.

Solution Oriented Brief Therapy

Instead of focusing on analyzing what went wrong in the past and why it went wrong, she began to track what couples were doing just before they started to fall in love with each other again. Then she asked couples to try an experiment and start doing exactly what they were doing prior to when their fighting stopped and they made up. And the results were amazing.

For that reason, here’s a link where I won’t have to give a commission disclaimer letting you know that we are getting a commission because I am happy to recommend this woman and her Divorce Busting website and materials just because I believe it can help you find coaching and materials that can make your life better.

Divorce Busting - Michele Weiner-Davis

Note: Currently, I do NOT receive a commission for sales made by going to the link above. But I DO find great joy if you are better able to have a great marriage and if your children are able to grow up in a healthy and loving home rather than a broken home as my daughter had to do.

I may, however, decide to join her affiliate program, and if I do, I will change this disclaimer to notify those coming here according to what the law requires or might require.

Until then, I’ll be happy just to recommend someone I hold in high esteem for her work in this area.

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