Flirt Only and Often With Your Spouse

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Flirting outside the marriage is deadly, but flirting with your spouse is an awesome way for you and your spouse to affirm to each other your self worth and bond with each other. When you flirt with your spouse, you reinforce their self worth and make them feel happy and secure in your marriage. And this is very good for your children. When your spouse flirts with you, appreciate it and return the favor. Don’t put your spouse down or question his or her sincerity. Encourage a good thing that is helpful for strengthening your marriage and building up your children’s confidence and happiness in the family.

However, if you are unfortunate enough to have an unfaithful spouse, I would stay far away from empty flattery to get your spouse back.  Stay away from clinging desperately or even appearing to be desperate. Appreciate sincerely all that is good in your spouse, but express disappointment that your spouse has decided to take the low road in life. Say you hoped that would be beneath him or her and say you know your spouse is capable of much better than that and that you’re disappointed.

But, if your marriage is still intact, thank God and make the very best of it. The reason I placed this recommended book on this page is that I bought it and read it and found it to be full of excellent ideas for having a great marriage. It can also help you in your relationship with your kids, friends and coworkers, but most of it is really centered on marriage. I highly recommend it.you, appreciate it and return the favor. Don’t put your spouse down or question his or her sincerity.

Encourage a good thing that is helpful for strengthening your marriage and building up your children’s confidence and happiness in the family.